Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Parenting challenges!

Challenges of raising a kid, seeks patience PATIENCE PATIENCE and more PATIENCE ! It can get worse with time, may get better as well!

All well as schooling started, Vihaan can make songs out of 10 odd poems, can rattle alphabets, count till 30, and spell as many as 20 words. Extremely active and sharp child!! Why display an erratic behavior with kids younger his age? I’ve failed to understand, what goes wrong with my little boy, when he is in the company of kids, he seldom gets to see! He expresses his joy of being with them by pulling/ pushing/ biting them, immediately realizing it was wrong, however, he does it again.
It leaves me Embarrassed and frustrated, I can only show my displeasure without noticing any improvement in my child’s behavior. Everyone is of the view – “It’s a passing phase”.

I feel scared at the idea of socializing in large group, visualizing, Vihaan might just get too excited and may hurt kids without intent. To add to it, I feel miserable comprehending my inability to bring the change.

Still figuring out the makeshift routine that may bring out the whole change as required!

2 comments:

Neelu Pandey said...

I know what you mean Rich and how we as moms reflect on ourselves about all that goes wrong and never give credit for the great things they do and say. Don't you worry too much and I am going to repeat too - its a passing phase.

Richa K said...

Waiting for this phase to pass away really quick! Don't want to loose my sanity over it..:)

U know Vihaan moves and communicates at the speed of light, n if u don't acknowledge, he tends to retaliate - result is no words, just actions.